On March 16, JYJ’s Park Yoo Chun and actor Park Yoo Hwan laid their father to rest at the Seoul Memorial Park. The funeral ceremony took place at the Sungmo Hospital in Seoul, and fellow JYJ and C-Jes Entertainment members stayed by the brothers’ side throughout the ordeal. However, many noticed that Jaejoong was nowhere to be seen.
It’s been revealed that Jaejoong was unable to attend because he had collapsed in exhaustion. For the past three days, he could not stop his tears as he helplessly stood by Yoo Chun and his family. A representative stated, “Jaejoong has been crying nonstop since he arrived in Korea following the tour in South America. He showed signs of exhaustion, so we sent him home. He’s currently in a state where he’s not able to do anything, and he’s receiving IV treatments. He’ll need some time to rest and recover.”
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Heart Breaking 😦 hope he recovers soon.
So much he has gone through, my prayers will be for his soon recovery!
Argh.. I am so stressed with those people who blame on JJ.
JJ did attend the funeral for three days then he fainted at the end of the funeral.
Koreans do funeral for three day which is called 3-il-jang.
JJ was staying with Yuchun for three days then he fainted on the last day before they see and bury his father finally.
those whoever criticize Jae and JYJ in these difficult situation are heartless people, self centered and selfish. they only think of their opinions they don’t think about how yoochun feels, junsu, jae, and yoochun’s family.
those people are heartless..they know nothing but hate..
i have no respect for people like them
those people are heartless
JJ hurts for his friend, and Jaejoong is fragile his heart is very tender and sensitive. he i bet is still shocked over one of his friends sudden death and now his best friend is suffering over his father’s death. so much has been building much inside Jaejoong and the fact people have different capability to bear stuff. he has been there for three days , he couldn’t keep on the forth. i never attended my grandmothers funeral , cause i would collapse on the first day, some people have this sensitive state of mind and heart weather at some point , and the funeral happens to be at that moment, or, they really can’t bear funeral. its really obvious some people just can’t handle the emotional pain , is it a crime ??? Jaejoong might be like this and worried about his own appa maybe he worried about two of his fathers and two of his mothers (he’s adopted and he never knew he was untill later after his debut ). he is freaked burdened hurt and suffering. he took all he could take. he is human people have no right to say anything about him. poor Jaejoong always keeping everything inside to not involve anyone in his sorrow. and he also thinks too much. Jaejooong is also very lonely. he needs someone in his life to tell him its allright , it will all be fine , no matter what he is fine. he needs a person who he can depend on cause others always depend on him , but who does he depend on he always responsible for everything and everyone .
Oh dear… lets hope JJ will listen to his body and give himself much needed rest. He must be well to support YC and YH through this time.
omg im soooo worried , my poor jaejoong T_T , please stay strong . yoochun and junsu too i love you guys
and plzzz take care of yourself , we are here for you jyj
I feel helpless, just want the boys stay strong..wish silent stay on their side whichever road they have to go!!
@anva
same here…i feel so sad for them, but i also wan to be strong for them…all the stress and strain have taken its toll on their health…JYJ deeply love each other and their families are families to each one of them too…Jae especially is very affectionate to the Park brothers, with yoochun as his soulmate…
so heartbreaking, hope jae recovers soon.
don’t worry anva , they will be fine , they are close and have family to comfort them. don’t worry. i am sure JYJ are happy to know fans like u and everyone feel with them happy when they are and sad when they are but we will all be fine.
I hope that jae gets better!!! T.T
Give them time, our boys will come out stronger after all these .. they are being refined by fire .. all we can do is pray for them .. good health and good mind .. and a much more stronger bond. The things they are going through are cementing their brotherhood.
Get well soon JJ oppa
I hope he’ll recover soon.He’s tired from the tour, the changing of time from South America to South Korea and, at last, but not least , rot the sad events. Hwaiting, JJ!
Let it all out Jae cry as much as u want.Let it all out of your system,then sleep without thinking anything & rest well.We are human we can be weak at sometime but you are always stronger than I thought,if u r tired lean on us,U have stayed strong for us for a long time.I know u will be strong again.
yes i agree with you as well.
yes, same here, it’s better that way, allowing Jae to cry it out and vent all his sorrow and grief
agree with u
i hope he feel better now .my lovely jae he make me worried now .but i know this hard time will make them more stronger
Poor baby Jaejoong have been difficult times for him, rest well my love
Whoever attacks Jaejoong for not attending Yuchun’s father funeral doesn’t have a heart. Jaejoong is the most compassionate and warm human being I’ve ever known. He passed out because he cried very hard beside Yuchun for 3 days nonstop! My heart is really aching for Jaejoong. Please be strong Jaejoong! We always support you no matter what.
JJ and YC are the closest friends amongst DBSK members since the past. They are not just business partners at all. They are like real family. Why are they called as Soulmates? Not a joke. Cuz since the past they were still of DB5K, JJ and YC were only the ones who have no family with them in Seoul (JJ’s family were in the province and YC’s family were in America) and have pains in terms of family. I’m sure you guys know what their family stories were about, huh. So they were tightly close because they had something in common. And when YC’s mother and brother came back to Korea, JJ of course became close with them. Please do understand this with the Korean sentiment. He must be feeling depressed that much, of course, as if his real father passed away.
Moreover, especially Jaejoong, the right before he went to SA tour he got attacked from Dispatch (Sasaeng issue) so he was really depressed and has to feel such a shame during the SA tour. But he didn’t ever show his grief as a pro, he did good job. Then he faced his family-like Yuchun father’s death when he came back from the SA tour. No wonder how he gets too much depressed and stressed from all those things happened within just a week. Then he poured tears excessively throughout the THREE DAYS AT THE FUNERAL STAYING WITH YUCHUN. He was mentally and physically wiped out. Finally, he fainted at the end of the funeral. phew…Then people blame on JJ? What the..
your comment made me cry , well said T___T
@Jeneration @Kelly
those people are so shallow and heartless!
i didn’t know that Jae was criticized…
How can people be so mean, underestimate others and be so quick to judge?
well i don’t want to talk about them, coz that will dignify their savage acts in this moment of sorrow and grief
i want to pay more respects to the Park and JYJ, and Cjes family who are grieving right now…
i would rather stay with them in spirit and offer my prayers…
Get well my beloved Jae, take your time and we shall wait for your full recovery
We shall always stay by your side, Junsu’s side, Yoochun and Yoohwan’s sides…
coz you all are our dear family too – from your loving fans
typo
has to feel *had to feel
I SO Agreeeeee !!! Jaejoong Collapsed and they stay his condition is UNSTABLE and he is receiving intravenous fluids and STILL those antis are blaming him????????? When are they gonna have mercyyyyy !!! One thing I know and most certain of is that the World really goes around and the will come when those antis face what he faced and they will regret every pit of ittttttttttt :@:@:@
Jaejoong, I hope he recovers quickly…..Or….no not quicklyyyy !! Actually, I want ALL JYJ members to take at least TWO weeks OFF. I know we want them so muchhh, but I think they need this. Yoochun must be in a situation that could get worse than JJ. We know nothing about him now. And Junsu already looked so pale in the funeralll and some rumors say he also collapsed :(:( So I do really wish they can have a long vacation to restttt and clear their minds (YET again, I WISH. I know Yoochun will return to the filming set on March 19, Jaejoong most probably will also start preparing for his Drama and Junsu will return to Elizabeth) !!!
Be Strong JYJ ❤ FIGHTING
I have no doubt whatsoever that if Jaejoong could manage it physically, he would have been there at the final part of the ceremony, for sure. Because of that, it makes me really worried what kind of condition he must have been in to miss even one moment. Really worried……TTTTTTTTT
On the other hand, I have so much respect and admiration for his extraordinary heart ability to empathize. At times that kind of sensitivity can surely almost be like a burden, for it exhausts a person, but ultimately, what a gift, for all of us, for what comes through his heart shines so brilliantly in his creativity as well.
Jaejoong I hope you rest well. TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT
This is true…I always believe in the true friendship of Jaejoong and Yoochun. The most important thing is that they understand each other too well and they are with each other in this most difficult time.
Take good care our dear JYJ. You can get through this. We are one with you in prayer. We are always here behind you.
This is for you Kim Jaejoong …
“In this sad world of ours, sorrow comes to all; and, to the young, it comes with bitterest agony, because it takes them unawares. The older have learned to ever expect it. I am anxious to afford some alleviation of your present distress. Perfect relief is not possible, except with time. You can not now realize that you will ever feel better. Is not this so? And yet it is a mistake. You are sure to be happy again. To know this, which is certainly true, will make you some less miserable now. I have had experience enough to know what I say; and you need only to believe it, to feel better at once.”
― Abraham Lincoln
Dear @kris
Hugs to you friend in these moments of sorrow and pain
Thanks for sharing this consoling poem.
Nalulungkot talaga ako sa mga sunod-sunod na mga pagbabatikos sa kanila, eh wala naman silang masama na ginawa,
tapos eto at bigla pang namatay ama ni Yoochun, na sa tingin ko, kinilala din na ama nila jaejoong and junsu…
sana Jaejoong will get well soon and overcome his grief and sorrow, and so with yoochun yoohwan, junsu, and everyone deeply in pain right now
That Jae will be able to pour out all his sorrow and grief, and restore his energy back after a full rest, in the comfort of his big and loving family, and genuine friends…
and our constant prayers for them
Amen, my friend jyj1214
But with all their struggles, come to think of it, God has been very kind to them. I’ve said this before, that YC’s father held his last breath until the SA tour was completed. I had a personal experience with my mother on how a dying person can hold their last breath. She was battling with cancer for two years and and she’s on a state where she surrendered to fight for her life. She beg us to just let her go, because with all those series of chemotherapy and blood transfusion, she realized that we her children were just “buying ” her life. When she was dying, my sister cried so hard because that was her birthday. She begged my mother to hold on, and my mother granted her wish, she died just the following day.
I was horrified by the thought of what could have happened if YC’s father died just before or during the SA tour. With all those series of scandals then a cancellation of that tour, that could have shatter JYJ. And maybe that’s what made Jaejoong so affected. A mixture of feelings are haunting him. Maybe he’s regretful that because of that tour, YC was not around on his father’s last days, and maybe those feelings when his close friend died while JYJ were in the USA, were coming back. I’m worried if he’s feeling guilty again for the circumstances beyond his control, adding to the frustration to be labeled as “woman beater”. How a sensitive man could endure all those?
You have a point there Kris,
first of all, i am so sorry to hear about your mom’s demise. I had a similar experience with my papa and with my best friend who suffered long before they let go. They only eventually let go of their last breath,when they were permitted to go by their beloved family…
Perhaps all these must be coming back and battling on Jae’s consciousness. He has always been protective of Yoochun since their TVXQ days. Both Junsu and Jae expressed this in their interviews before. Although Yoochun has learned to control his emotions lately, but Jae continues to be protective and concerned of him, just like how he is to all his dear friends, whom i think he considers as his brothers too.
Yes, how can any strong and mortal being, who is very genuine and loving to his friends and family, who aspires to improve himself everyday and spread his wings to accommodate and love everyone back who have been faithful to them, endure his pains, and apologize publicly to all his fans for his response to sasaengs years back-the savage people who made their lives a “hell” over these years –endure all these? It’s just too much really, it’s beyond human …and yet in his time of sorrow and grief, he still gets criticized and labelled…this is indeed torture for Jae…I am so horrified too at those possibilities…
Yes, with all these taken into account, God has been very merciful to Jae and Junsu and Yoochun. God has always been merciful to them, and blessed them with so much as they struggled for their existence in their industry given all the unjust and inhuman treatment they receive from a lot of entities in both SK and Japan, they have been sandwiched and squeezed, with all the pressures applied on them, God has been merciful to show them a path, no matter how narrow and rocky, that if they are not fully given the recognition and opportunities they rightfully deserve in SK and Japan, they do can go and explore other countries and get fully and lovingly recognized. Through God’s merciful intervention for JYJ, they broke so many records being the first among Korean artists to have chartered bigger territories in their small and solo ways…they managed major breakthroughs on their own trending no longer just K-Pop, but their own signature JYJ-Pop coined and baptized on them by their fans, and making to news already…
Nonetheless the news on him in IV is so heartbreaking and genuine fans can’t help but be worried too. Lets continue to pray kris that God will continue to shield our Jae from all evil, and so with Junsu, Yoochun, and their brothers and families….That good will win over evil. Well Good will always win, that i know for sure…Hope Jae will find someone to talk too and process his grief and pain. Hope he also gets therapy if he needs to, so he will be able to cross-over these painful issues. If only i can be beside him right now, i would gladly do it to jae-talk therapy.
@jyj1214
Yes, maybe my family and friends will laugh at me if they’ll know that I include JYJ in my prayers everyday.
And I believe God is so kind to mothers like us, I’m praying for His blessings for our family (and that includes JYJ who don’t even know my existence).
@kris @jyj1214
Your insights are truly inspiring and heart warming…much needed at this time.
Maraming salamat.
@kris @jyj1214
I shed tears reading both your comments😥 So open and transparent about your own experiences and hence, able to empathize with what Chun and Jae are going thru now. I myself lost my beloved grandma last yr so i know what Chun is going thru and you ladies have penned above.
Thank you for your open sharing… That is what i really like abt jyj3 and the difference between this and other idol blogs! Here, jyj3-ers are like family, a mature, respectful bunch of people who loves JYJ sincerely, and not blindly! I thank God for bringing me to this blog.🙏
Dear Jae Joong ❤❤❤
Please, You need to take care of yourself, your health come first.
You need to get well so soon as you can, because many are very worry about you right now.
Be strong, so Yoochun can find comfort from you.
JYJ fighting!
From an interview of JJ when he was still working in Japan, JJ said that it is heartbreaking to see Yuchun because Yuchun used to cry even when he sees the moon. It makes him sad cuz he can’t do anything and take that damn moon away. Jaejoong was not the kind of person who usually cry but soothe a crying person. You guys know it, right? Then, now… he became a weeper. T.T;;
How did he care for Yuchun for a long time? He always used to hang out with Yuchun and have meals together. Yuchun was lonely because he came from America and had no one to share his worries with. Even when it was Korean thanksgiving day, JJ used to bring YC to his province(where JJ family live) for eating Ddukgook and staying together so that he won’t feel lonely. JJ is this kind of person. Then some of you guys bash him because he made a spectacle at Yuchun father’s funeral? huh?
typo
*on Yuchun father’s funeral
not at
“Then some of you guys bash him because he made a spectacle at Yuchun father’s funeral? huh?”
What spectacle? Those persons bashing Jae have already dislike him or even hate him from the start, they just find an excuse to throw a jab on him. Nothing Jae does pleases them. Then what will they say if Jae attended the funeral even in worst condition then collapsed in the middle of the ceremony? of course they will charge him as stealing the scene even from a dead person because they always brand him as an attention whore!. And what will Yoochun feel and do while burying his father and seeing his best friend drop half-dead, do they want YC to go insane?
And this term “attention whore” , if he’s really such, how can he gave the In Heaven MV to Junsu? and how can he let YC and JS went on with their solo projects first and he just stayed at the background? thus some even called him useless. How can he took just a second lead of his debut drama in SK when YC has already 2 main lead drama?
This was last year and the same pattern is happening this year. Is this how a perfect “attention whore” behaves?
@kris @Jeneration
Oh dear kris and Jeneration,
these untimely bashings, cruel labellings just goes beyond my human reasoning. My mind cannot fathom on the fact that people as mean and cruel to Jaejoong do exist in this world. I thought they could only exist in movies and books, but indeed, people as evil as them, as monstrous as their acts do exist, and even so thick-faced to flaunt it around in this times of sorrow and grief! Oh my God
where is their conscience? My belief has always been that,” everyone , i mean EACH ONE OF US is created in the image and likeness of God. That even the worst among criminals has still goodness in them and has a chance to reform because there is a God in them talking to them through their conscience”…but these evil acts against jaejoong is making me believe otherwise now. Perhaps there are people out there who has completely abandoned the God in them and turned completely evil…while in this world.
What they’re doing right now is for me..murder. They are emotionally, psychologically, mentally, killing our beloved Jae, and i just feel so helpless and exhausted…how much more Jae who has been suffering a lot from all these, for all these years…i mean years…
But I won’t stop praying for jae’s full health- mental, emotional,psychological,social,spiritual -recovery. Likewise for yoochun and yoohwan and junsu and everyone suffering with the Park, JYJ & Cjes family right now. I pray that JYJ will be shielded with God’s grace and unconditional llove for them, that God’s compassionate and merciful love will protect our beloved Jae, Yoochun. Junsu. Yoohwan from evil…with my strong faith in God, i know He will be there always to keep and bless our JYJ, Yoohwan always.
That God will hopely win back those evil doers…before it’s too late for them…
this is what Junsu and Yoochun said before, Jaejoong seldom cry or he will not cry infront of anyone but once he start to shed tears he cannot stop crying. All of them are mentally and physically exhausted. i read somewhere that junsu after the funeral collapsed as well. yoohwan too. JYJ have been to a 30hrs flight, then two concerts, then 30hrs flight again then a heartbreaking news welcome them when they cameback. plus all the negative rumors they are facing. combine all the stress and heartache and sleepless days. i hope they will rest and do nothing these days, just eat and sleep, not even think.
I am so sad that many I-fans don’t understand what is going on with Jaejoong. K-fans are just worrying about Jaejoong’s health because keeping the mourning family’s side for three days nonstop is such a difficult thing. Korean funeral emphasizes the three day mourning period much more than the actual burial day and the formder process is such an exhausting experience.
If you ask me if Jaejoong participated in the funeral, I will definetely say yes cus the mourning period is the primary part of the funeral. Most of the mourners do not participate in the final day.
I know that my writing is rambling but plz understand. The fact that Jaejoong could not stay to the end means that his health condition is really, really bad. I have never encountered this kind of worrisome news about Jae. I want to cry for worry and most K-fans are the same. We are really nervously waiting for any news about Jae’s recovery.
@Pollin
Thank you for making the concerned, prejudiced I-fans understand your mourning practice…
I am so worried too because this is also my first time to hear news of Jaejoong’s health that went this worst, since the time i’ve followed them in their former agency…
i will also pray for this ruthless people. I think that we should also include in our prayers their transformation from evil back to goodness
I think it’s useless to fight back to them, because they have already decided to take the evil side…only God’s intervention would transform them back, regain their morals and values, learn to see the truth and accept rather than distorting them…
sometimes there are people referred to as “anawim” – “they are of God’s”, meaning their conversion is beyond human power and intervention, only God himself can change and convert them back to goodness…otherwise they too would be beyond God’s saving grace…:-(
I hope these type of people will stop hurting our beloved and good Jae. Through ardent prayers, I am sure God will not abandon Jae during his saddest and most painful times…such as now. Let’s join hands in prayers for his full recovery and wellness…it’s just a cruel world out there for JYJ, we need to continue praying for them…
Are you in Korea right now? Please keep us posted about jae’s health. Thank you so much friend.
I can’t speak for all I-fans…but I understand perfectly… this is so sad & heartbreaking….why can’t they be just left alone for god sake T_T
I just even read that Junsu collapsed after the funeral? Is this true *makes me really worry* 😦 Hopefully JJ will rest and recover soon!
@Pollin
thank you information, I am I-fan and i dont know much korean culture, but i adsolute believe the boys have wonderfull friendship, the love and care, understand and feeling with other, never question about it ..when i know JJ was not participate in the funeral..which thing appeared in my head notthing else , only worry something happen or his health.
and i thing most of I fans in here worry too. That why please dont be so sad. I hope Kfan and I fans have good connect together, maybe we can have change to do some thing for our boys or maybe will have right information.
I pray for strength for the boys. They’ve been through a lot. From hence forth I only want to see your smiles and hear your laughter. JYJ Fighting to the Top!
Soulmates, just pour it all out and please regain and strengthen your hearts and minds soon. Please always keep in minds that JS/families/friends/fans are all be here in give support and love to both of you.
I’ll be waiting for your comebacks.
@vhonz
ako din kaibigan, hihintayin ko sila, back in their best elements and ready again to tour and conquer the world
Jaejoong oppa, please take care of yourself & recover soon.
We are all worried about you and wish you nothing but good health ASAP !!!
Praying for JYJ …. ❤
On Thursday, March 15, I left work early, I missed my evening class because I felt exhausted. I went home and slept from 3:00pm until Friday mornirng at 6:00 am. My life is full of stress, so yesterday finally my body could not handle it anymore. I felt that my blood pressure was low, I was weak, dizzy and all over sick. However, even though I have a lot of stress in my life, my stress and shock is half or less of what these men have experienced for the last two years and the crescendo of last few days. It’s only natural that the human body can’t take it anymore, sometimes our body just simply says: “I need to shut down some systems, so I can keep you alive” because our body and mind know how much they can take. That’s what my body told me yesterday, take a break or you will end up in the hospital. I have been in the hospital even in the ICU. I don’t want to be there again.
The fact of the matter is that JJ’s body and mind gave up because too much stress/ exhaustion/ overwork, and it needed to refuel. I don’t even understand why we even have the discussion. I will speculate that those that keep talking s..t about JJ are brainless teenagers, because adults with all their mental faculties will not doubt even for one minute if they heard that someone is ill.
I am so sad for everything that these men are experiencing that I want to tell them to just give it all up; give up the entertainment industry and live your life beautifully with the your loved ones; this mf industry is not worthy. But the boys love what they do too much. So, I will support them not matter what .
@ daebaksama
well said friend…all i wish too is JYJs happiness whether they will find in or out of the industry..they will always have my blessings and understanding
I will give them all my support for whatever they choose. they brought so much happiness in my life in the last and a half year. because of them I also got to know all of you, JYJ3ers,and I am happy for that. I don’t even know how to say that I am so happy because of them, and I want them so much to be happy and healthy.
same here with me friend…though they do know us personally but they marked their presence in our individual lives and brought so much happiness and excitement in our ordinary living…
…on another important concern, i hope you are in good health too friend, and that you’re able to find full rest ,and able to recharge your body…my blood pressure dipped low lately also after my surgery, so i know how weak it feels. Let’s take good care of ourselves so we can continue to love and show our concern and appreciation to our beloved JYJ too,,,all the best!
I hope you also feel good, I am sorry to hear that you needed a surgery. I am not sure if you are in USA, but nonetheless hospitals are scary no matter where you are in the world. I was here in the USA in a hospital, and you feel so vulnerable! I want our men to be well, but they will need to mourn and suffer for their loss for a while; it’s only natural.
I am good now, I think I can continue working and going to school again. I am looking forward to finish grad school; I am so sick of it. Today I splurged and had a very expensive haircut; I am not sure if I will go again to this hairdresser because it’s very expensive, but it was fun. I need to eliminate some stress from my life. Now, the weather is really nice, so walking more outside will also help with stress.
I hope our JYJ3ers are all doing well.
I had my surgery in the Philippines, but luckily in a very good hospital -Asian Hospital and Medical Center an affiliate of Bumrungrad International – they made my stay very comfortable because it’s very scary to undergo surgery, although this is actually my 3rd since i gave birth through ceasarian twice..
Glad you pampered yourself with that expensive service, i believe you so deserve that every once in a while after all you’ve been working and studying so hard…i also go to the parlor, get a haircut, and massage from the spa whenever i am stressed…and of course here at JYJ3…i find back my sanity whenever i am here…
Yup, Grad school is indeed challenging with the pile up of readings and research work to do, i went through that too. May i know what program you are in? I missed being a student again coz it’s been years since i finished my masters in counseling, but i have to prioritize my children first, and be with them in their growing up years, maybe when they are old enough to fend for themselves, i’ll pursue my phd, well…
Enjoy your walk and savor the beauty of mother nature. Like JYJ, we all need to rejuvenate ourselves coz there’s still a long,long,way ahead for us as we journey with these three exceptionally wonderful guys….meanwhile lets hope that they get all the rest they so deserve to recover from all the pains…yup, it’s more healthy for them to grieve right now to be able to move on well with their happy lives in or out of the industry ..
I study non profit management, and I my focus is education and at this moment is higher ed. I love these boys like their are my own sons.
OMGS, three births! You are a hero. I do not plan to give birth to any children, I raised about 5 of them (niece and nephews) and I did my mothering in this world. I simply can’t fathom a human being coming out of my body. Women are amazing, I tell you. It’s so commanding for you to take your time to raise your children in their formative years. Being a mom is a full time job, in fact is a never stopping job because when you go to work it may be 9 to 5 or so, but as a mom you are working conitnuously. I hope your partner helps a lot! Some men can be so clueless!
Oh, so were are in allied fields, education. I work in a university. Yes motherhood is indeed a fulltime job – whether you gave birth naturally or gave birth in your heart just like raising your nieces and nephews. I know a lot who decided to adopt that kind of motherhood and are also in non-government or non-profit consultancy work…Yes JYJ are like adopted sons to me when i’m in my motherly mood, and sometimes they become my cyber love though (i consider myself a jaeharem)..or my brothers, or my models…well let’s just say that the definition of the relationship with JYJ is complicated…but for sure, they are valuable. i know of a lot of cases where men leave it all to the women to look after the children and manage the entire household while women also work. There are so many chauvinists men out there, too bad. But i believe our JYJ will be good husbands in the future since they grew up well with women who cares for them a lot, and they recognize the hard work of their beloved women – their mothers- who love them dearly. My husband is supportive too, and tries to understand until know my fascination with JYJ and my constant chatting here at JYJ3, and the jyj posters in my cabinet and dresser. Maybe he finds it safer than me hanging out in bars etc. (which is so remote actually)…
i wish you all the best friend, it’s nice meeting and getting to know you more through our sharing here. I enjoy meeting everyone here in JYJ3. Got to leave JYJ3 for a while, i’m attending my kindergarten son’s moving on ceremony to grade 1.
I will keep Jae’s recovery in my prayers, and JYJ healing too…Bye for now and thank you very much! Take care friend and everyone!
I really love this comment!! I am only 13 years old but I’m mature enough to think in their shoes. I felt so exhausted like I really was yoochun himself. I know how he’s feeling since I lost a grandmother when she was in the Philippines and I didnt find out until the very next day when family members called to say. I was also super close with then lost a close grandfather a few days after. I also know how jaejoong is feeling. I cried nonstop and I ended up getting pneumonia.
thank you. i hope you are doing well these days after your dear ones passed away. you are so young and so much to live for and enjoy. hugs you tight, my dear one.
@808kristenlovesjeje
Hi kristen, nice meeting you here. Are you Pinay also?
Yes you’re so mature to understand and empathize at your very young age. Take it easy too, hope you have moved on after your experiences of loss, yes what you went through maybe similar to what jae is feeling right now…in fact, though i am hesitant to say this, but i am also worried for jae because i heard in a news before that his dad was not in good health too, i hope Jae’s parents are also in good health…
Loss is really painful, it takes a lot of strength, courage, and support from loving friends to be able to move on from any loss, let’s continue praying and showing our love to Jae and yoochun, yoohwan, junsu and juno…the JYJ tight brotherhood!
Thanks for the reply! In fact it was JYJ, my friends, and my family which helped me get over my losses. I wish I could do the same and give them all a huge bear hug. ;( they had it way worse than me though and they must feel terrible! JYJ fighting! And thanks again for the reply!
Thank you! I’ll send a big mutual bear hug to you! I wish I could comfort them all, but all I can do is just pray and wish for them to recover with the rest of the JYJ family. And yes I am doing very well thanks to my friends, family, and JYJ. Also thanks to you and the rest of the JYJ family for making me feel better!
Oh my gosh, please God watch over all JYJ members including their friends and family. Please help jaejoong quickly recover and please help JYJ get through everything. God bless jaejoong for recovery and the park family to get through this huge loss without any harm. Awww I’m gonna cry!! Jeje baby!!
for all my friends above forget about those heartless haters,haters always hate,we know How Jae go all hyung to YC,how he is protective of YC,this is not something he can protect or he can make YC feel better he must feel helpless.Like all u said Jae & YC used to say “what mine is yours” they are that close.The timing of new,Jae had bad rumor before concert,after their successful concert,the new hit them like a rocket fall out of sky at airport they will go devastating. Like @Pollin said that mourning period is most tiresome & jae& junsu stayed with YC all the time. Like @kris said if Jae collapse YC will go crazy,Jae will insist to stay beside YC,he was sent home mean he is in really unstable state.
You’re right Zan.
I hope Jae could just say ” Love me for what I Am ” to all his fans and to all those people who have so much expectations from him. I got this MV which tells about an affair between the singer and the fans…
“You’re always finding something
Is wrong in what I do
But you can’t rearrange my life
Because it pleases you”
“You’ve got lo love me
For what I am
For simply being me
Don’t love me
For what you intend
Or hope that I will be
And if you’re only using me
To feed your fantasy
You’re really not in love
So let me go
I must be free”
So for those who can’t take him for what he is, just let him go, no more bitter words.
@kris
yeah kris, i hope these ruthless people will finally have the conscience to let our jae go, if they can’t love jae then let Jae be, let him free, free from their monstrous acts and unending inflictions of pain…
@kris
thank u very good video,yes people should just take him for what he truly is he is not fantasy angel character.
you said it well @zan
ohhh it’s so tiring indeed…
We do hope you can take deep rest and good treatment for your health recovery.
Nothing can beat you down…Keep your faith…You can do it..We all know that…The trust is what we can do for you…
Even you can’t be with Chun during the sad moment, he can understand and also Su is there, isn’t it?…..
You take care yourself so that you can be the great comfort and support now and future……Please..Please…Please…take care…
Hope can you recover soon…
please just take care of yourself now. you are the sweetest most thoughtful friend a person can have. now you have to get your own strength up to continue to help others like you will always do. any one who knows anything about jj will know what a special person he is.
Juz want to voice my full support for Jae. It really boggles my mind, how merciless those haters could be to throw around such accusations when the 3 are already in terrible pain. These pple juz couldn’t keep their mouths shut even for a day. Don’t they have any human decency left?
For healthy young men like them to collapse – can u imagine what they have gone thru? We outsiders only scratch the surface, we don’t really understand their trials n tribulations, their experiences n emotions. And given Jae’s character n Soulmate’s brudderhood, the idea that Jae would want to miss the day of burial could not be more idiotic and ridiculous.
I hope that our boys have lots of love and support from family and friends to carry them thru this time. My thoughts n prayers are with them.
@intoxicatedbyxiahtic
i share your sentiment and support…im praying hard for Jae’s full recovery
i feel sorry for jae joong. please take care of your health, jj. yc, yh and js, also. please take a rest.
let the losers speak anything they want. that’s why we call them, losers. because they talk like a losers. hahahahaha…
i know, it’s one of the darkest moment in JYJ… i believe they will able to face this moment and become stronger person..
God knows best. In God hands, everything will be alright, JYJ..
Prays hard for Jaejoong’s full recovery, also for the Park brothers and Junsu’s well being…*God Bless*
a letter for my lovely JYJ Families- JYJ3….
recently a lot of things happens…the bad ones always overshadowed the good ones…i have an urge to share my experience in dealing in the death of the love one and my reflection on the recent news on our guys….JYJ
i remember when my father suddenly passed away in the arms of his co-worker 8years ago…i was so shock that i wont shed any tears…i was act so calmed that too abnormal…luckily my bf force me to cry out my heart before attending the funeral…i wont do any good if i too wept along sides my 3 sisters while my mother and my 12yrs old brother acting so brave in front of others…my other 3 brothers cannot attend the funeral due to their problem with the flights…i have to act as the elders in my brothers absent and my pregnant older sister place…it was confiusing with all the fuss…i just act like i know everything and with aids from our closest relatives everything went smoothly…if i reflected back, everyone act/reaction are different with each other when it come to face the death of our love one…like me, i stunt myself that i act like nothing happens; my sisters cried their heart out then fainted; my mother crying silently whenever she thinks nobody watching her,keep acting calm; my 12yrs old brother tried his hardest to act in place of his older brother; my 3 brothers that cannot attend the funeral until to this date feel a miss; one of them totally change and become loner- drop out of his study and become so sensitive; the other two become closer to me and until to this date, all the decision will be decided among the three of us.
the one that attend the funeral either wept silently or openly will exhust themselve mentally and physically but they will able to move on easier than the one that keep all the emotion inside and act brave…it is better to cry out our heart before become calm and collect to face it…
the one that cannot attend the funeral will always have regret in his heart that if didnot manage it properly can cause mentally self-blaming~ like my brother, drop out from his study, become a overly sensitive man with low sel esteme…if we mange it propely, we can grown wiser and mature like my other 2 brothers…once jaejoong ever qoute[fi i not mistaken from abook he read], life is like a coin….
that not the point i am going to highlight here..it is more toward the improper bashing jaejoong face due to not able to attending the funeral……tbh, even without any prejudiced, any finger pointing, labelling – the fact that he cannot attend it will be always haunting him. do the enemies [haters and the “companies”], really want to drive the guy to the cliff and push him down?no wonder the suicidal cases involving celebrities are not uncommon thing nowadays…
i have faith in these three special guys that they will endure the paint and will grow even stronger…they have each other back and they have a lot of supporters[their families,friend, company and their fans] that wiiling to walk hand in hand with them through the better or the worse…the supporters that except them as a human being, willing to keep the faith in their decisions & wait for them patiently even when they take yet another risky step in order to purse their dreams….the supporters that ready to support,to protect, to cheer them up, to catch them if they fall and push them up again.the supporters that keep their dignity and the facts right- always act with rasional, calm and collected attitude that make the enemies looked like a spoilt brat throwing trantrum because they cannot have their own ways…
keep it up guys, we need to be stronger and firm with our belief in JYJ…the enemies will do anything to push them down…they are desperate now…desperate people always the most dangerous enemy because they will throw away the rasionality just to win anything…they will exponentially hype their small achievement-gloatting like a heroes returning from winning great battles….they will put all the blame on everyone but themselve when they lose…they will call names, labelled us as the pathetics whenever we talk about our victories…they will be overly sensitive and ready to be offended by mere words [usually they just hear/read what they want to know, then twisted it and added some lies to make them the victims]…in the battle towards desperate opponents, we must stay true to our belief and never ever allowed to stray away from it even for a second, because our enemies are ready to jump on any mistake [even a very small mistake] and make it like we are the worse human beingt that ever walk on the world….dont bite their bait to angered us to irrationality…
sincerly your,
hodoh45
JJ crying non-stop is a natural because he has been keeping it all to himself ever since the whole JYJ mess with SM has started that’s my opinion. Not long after that PYH also died in unfortunate circumstances but JJ still stood there after that ordeal but he took a beating emotionally, I’m sure of that. JJ continue as JYJ mostly for his brothers and for the fans who love JYJ and yet here comes the rejection from left and right in their home country as well as Japan the country they also love. We know JJ took this hard among the three of them but still in his twitter account while he let loose some of his frustration, JJ still mostly cheer us up and calm us down right. Still all the crap JYJ has been receiving even though other people outside of Korea has been singing their praises is not enough for Korea to treat them as Human The issue with saesang has taken a toll on him and I know JJ took it personally even though he sounded so positive in twitter. Seeing how YC has been treated by all those saesang fans when they arrived means the situation is not going to change soon for them despite JYJ’s success outside. . Yes you expect too much on JJ when we already know based on JJ’s sister that he has been depressed. People in depression thinks so hard they blame themselves for what went wrong and will cry nonstop. I know so because I did that also cried for hours and hours until I’m exhausted. So give JJ a break, we can’t expect him to be strong for US. Yes, for US, he is desperately holding on a thin line for US because he knows we worried too easily for him. JJ does not only carry his brothers and family but also all the people he love. Let’s be a pillar to him without being burdensome and let’s accept JJ is HUMAN despite us knowing that most of the times he’s really perfectly an angel himself.
To our dear Jae here’s our song for you “HAVE I TOLD YOU LATELY” by Rod Stewart
Hope this will lullabye you in your sleep…
Have I told you lately that I love you?
Have I told you there’s no one else above you?
Fill my heart with gladness, take away all my sadness,
Ease my troubles, that’s what you do.
For the morning sun in all it’s glory,
Meets the day with hope and comfort too,
You fill my life with laughter, somehow you make it better,
Ease my troubles, that’s what you do.
There’s a love less defined,
And its yours and its mine,
Like the sun.
And at the end of the day,
We should give thanks and pray,
To the one, to the one.
Have I told you lately that I love you?
Have I told you there’s no one else above you?
Fill my heart with gladness, take away all my sadness,
Ease my troubles, that’s what you do.
There’s a love less defined,
And its yours and its mine,
Like the sun.
And at the end of the day,
We should give thanks and pray,
To the one, to the one.
Have I told you lately that I love you?
Have I told you there’s no one else above you?
Fill my heart with gladness, take away all my sadness,
Ease my troubles, that’s what you do.
Take away all my sadness, fill my life with gladness,
Ease my troubles, that’s what you do.
Take away all my sadness, fill my life with gladness,
Ease my troubles, that’s what you do.
@jyj1214
Now our motherly instinct is showing up. I want to dedicate this song for him too,
have a peaceful sleep Jae for tomorrow is another day, a brighter one.
He’s currently in a state where he’s not able to do anything, and he’s receiving IV treatments
this sentence broke my heart…why those who know nothing keep on blaming him?
why dun they put themselves on his situation..? sometimes human can be really heartless and speak thoughtlessly
they don’t know jae’s friendship with chun. They best friend..no..brothers..no soulmate!!!
chun’s dad=jae’s dad..simply because you dislike someone, that doesn’t mean you can simply criticize that person..so uncivilized..
dear jaejoong, please recover soon..we love you
Jae’s depression didn’t kick in just because of Chun’s father passing away but also from the saddest he keep within himself when Park Yong Hwa passed away. Remember guys Jaejoong wasn’t able to attend and properly grieve toward Park Yong Hwa during his funeral since he was away in the US.
JYJ … THE J .. The Y … The J …. stay strong … ALWAYS KEEP IN MIND THAT WE LOVE U AND ALWAYS SUPPORT U … WE LOVE U ……
It’s doesn’t matter what others say.
As long as both Jae and Chunnie know each other, it’s good enough.
pic.twitter.com/gr8HufGh
Es tiempo de levantarse JYJ!! Se que tienen mucho dolor, y que lo que estan pasando es duro, durísimp, pero es ahora donde le van a demostrar a todo el mundo de que estan hechos: DE AMOR, PODER Y DOMINIO PROPIO
No lo dudo, ustedes valen mas que sus circunstancias
Mucho amor JYJ, y siempre mantengase unidos
I believe this is a time where the 3 of them can let out their accumulated stress and depression. It’s been such a tough year, and the sasaeng incident has put a lot on their shoulders, especially JJ.
Please JYJ, get some rest and get well soon, stay strong and kick start again
Joongie, Get well soon dear. You need to be strong for your brother.
Get well soon. Not just Jaejoong, but also Yoochun and Junsu.
they have been stressed by everything that has been going on in their lives.
I hope they will recover and rebound.
JYJ fighting!
Dear Jaejoong ,
there is nothing for you to feel bad about, everything happening is normal, cheer up sweet heart , happy and good days are coming like they had come before and are going to be better. don’t be sad darling we love you, love Yoochun, and love Junsu.
everything is going to be fine Jaejoong. ” hugz Jaejoong “
up up up
love JYJ
oh my..I’m so late…I hope he’ll be okay…this is so heartbreakingT.T
Jaejoong, Yoochun, Junsu & Yoohwan, my thoughts & prayers stay with you. Take as long as you need to grieve & to heal. Don’t worry about being strong for us fans, but instead let us be a source of strength & comfort for you. ♥♥♥♥
HUGS!
I m not a fan..but whn d news of him assaulting sasaeng fans came up, i started to read up about thiis guy n his background. After reading his life story since his dbsk debut days till now, I can’t help but empathize with him for his journey to where he is today is certainly not an easy ones. Alot of celebs would have given up and just leave the entertainment circle than suffer thru these continuous pains. But he didn’t. I really salute him for that.
He cares too much for other people that he’d forgotten that he lives for no one but himself. So, I hope he will recover soon from all these shits n b bck to his feet again.
To those ppl who anti him, go get a life n spent more time on the people u love than the people u hate!! Life is short.
Thank you for understanding special from non-fan like you..JJ he is wonderfull person and Junsu , Yuchun the same..they are go though so much hard time with nomal pp cant imagine ..that is the big reason beside music, i am the non-fan became their fans^^
@pippo
Thank you for your unbias comments and taking the effort to pen your thoughts down here. Indeed this is the injustice that Jae, Chun and Junsu have and are still going thru from haters, sasaengs, antis and the ever biggest culprit of all, Mr SoMeonE!
Jaejung…please get well soon….I don’t how I can help..I guess I can only tweets loving words via Twitter to you, Yuchun and Junsu……
T-T…….I don’t cry at funerals. I just numb up and I just can’t cry. I think this is what Yoochun ended up doing and Jaejoong. weakened by the exhaustion, cried nonstop for the both of them. Please….I hope these times get better after this. Cjes, give Jaejoong a break before the drama filming…
they need food, not IV. Just look at the size of them… almost malnultruitioned
These are the kind of news I don’t want to find. My poor baby………. So many things over his shoulders; deep feelings of the past and the present mixed; he finally collapsed……… My dear JJ, baby, please recover your heart and your spirit; nothing is the same without you…………
I really hope he’s okay. I mean having two concerts, a round trip flight to Latin America, crying nonstop 3 days, not food or drink, stress from sasaeng controversy, and all the other crap life sends his way. I’m not surprised he was exhausted and dehydrated. I hope he gets a lot of rest, thank god it wasn’t any more serious than it is.
not to mention directing the tour
Has anyone heard how he’s doing? i know it’s only been 6 days, but…